If I’m honest, I thought I would find being a manager easy.
After all, I’d had enough bad managers to know what not to do, and taken notes from a few that had been the inspirational leader I wanted to be. And I was a ‘people person’. And that’s the biggest hurdle, right? Apparently not.
My confidence lasted for about a day and a half.
Over the next few months, I stumbled along the management road. It was SO much steeper than it looked at the bottom
- I had to coach one of my former team mates for underperformance.
- I worked late into the night finishing other people’s work. I discovered there was more to delegating than just asking someone to do something.
- I dithered on making decisions and that impacted others. And I had to publicly take ownership for my mistakes.
- I made promises that were not in my power to deliver. And learnt how tough it feels to break those promises.
The hardest thing for me, I think, was no longer being able to share my fears and uncertainties with my old team mates. I now managed them and I should know what I was doing, shouldn’t I? And I didn’t feel like admitting to my new, more experienced peers that I really didn’t have a clue.
It felt a lonely place to be.
So I put on my ‘big girl pants’ and decided to figure this management thing out. I read books and found the courage to ask for help. I identified managers that did things well and I watched how they did it (that sounds a lot more ‘stalker like’ than it was!)
Most importantly, I took action on what I learnt by trying things out. I started to cross things off the list of ‘things I really suck at’ (In pencil, of course. I wasn’t that sure!). I started to enjoy my job and my team. We started to consistently deliver results.
My new found geekiness around all things management led me into roles focused on staff development, coaching and mentoring. I learnt how to make these things happen in a world where people rarely slowed to a walk.
My career progressed as a manager, then a director, but I can’t pretend that it was simple from that point onwards. I had to adapt the way I managed with every new team member, manager and organisational change. Management, I was to find, was a lot like parenting. As soon as you think you have the hang of it, things change and shakes you out of your temporary moment of self-congratulation.
Roll on a few years.
I now coach managers. My aim is to help them ditch the self-doubt and find their stride as the manager they want to be. I believe everyone should have the opportunity to enjoy their job. And with a boost in confidence and some tools to make you more competent at what you do, that’s what you can achieve.
Who do I help?
I’ve coached across many industries and many job roles.
Managers in IT, Operations, Customer Service and Finance. In Further Education, Software, Financial Services as well as small business owners who suddenly have a team to manage.
I think you get the most value out of The Smarter Manager if you have to manage people (even if it’s just one person). But it doesn’t matter what industry you’re in, or what you have on your to do list, the challenges of managing a team and getting results are fairly universal.
Over the years, three things have become strikingly clear to me. Three things that I believe are fundamental to becoming a great manager.
And they form the foundations for what I share with you on The Smarter Manager website, in the way I coach and in the programmes I create.
YOU CAN BE A BETTER MANAGER, WHOEVER YOU ARE
There is no ‘one size fits all’ to a great manager. You don’t have to be an extrovert or a highly-qualified over achiever. The secret sauce of great management is becoming aware of how you impact others and why others impact you in the way they do.
IT’S ALL ABOUT TAKING ACTION
You don’t have to invest hours at a time into training. In fact, in my opinion, you shouldn’t. Learn something, then act on it. Training or coaching is a waste of your time if you don’t take action. You didn’t learn to cycle by looking at the bike, did you?
SMALL ACTIONS TAKEN CONSISTENTLY MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE
Don’t think about changing everything overnight. Focus on small things you can work on day to day that will make a big difference.
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